The final outcome of this story is that the problem was not the tappets or the ECU, but the injector harness.
We replaced the fuel pressure regulator and the injector harness. The injector harness plug was full of oil and the O-rings were perished. She now runs like a thoroughbred.
We also discovered that Landrover had lied to me. They had told me that they had replaced the engine wiring harness as there was an upgrade chip installed and it had damaged it. This chip was supposedly installed by the previous owner. Landrover wanted to rush me R25000.00 to do this as they claimed it was not covered by the warrantee. I told them that, as I did not have the chip installed and they sold it to me with the chip, it was their problem. The eventually agreed and kept the car for some time while they did the replacement. With this problem I have now had, we checked the wiring harness and found the place where the chip had been installed. They had removed it and covered the damage over with tape.
Anyway all is well now.
Thank you all for your suggestions and advice.