I'm on standard height with standard duty springs with Gwyn's challenge kit, but with the new rear damper mount and am using x springs at the back. Balance it what I want.
Don't get me wrong, I do get travel at the front - but I think the balance may have been more even before in some ways.
I also know what you mean about people getting it all wrong about lift and travel and so on. I spoke to someone just the other day who had a mad 4" lift on a Disco but standard length shocks. They thought the only thing stopping them having travel like my Gwyn challenge set up was that they'd left the ARB on..
I'll look into drilling the bushes. What would people recommend? anyone pictures of theirs done?